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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

An open letter to anyone asking me about my weight loss



People have been asking me for months, "How have you lost so much weight?" 
I don't know if they are concerned that I may have a terminal illness or that I'm super stress out with a new home, marriage, or whatever...But no, I’m not sick, actually I feel very well thank you.  And while, a new home and marriage have been stressful, it’s been that most fantastic, rewarding journey of my life and not what has caused me to lose weight.

Here is the honest answer and all my secrets: 

I have lost a bit of weight, almost 50 pounds.  I was up to about 220 at my biggest point; today I'm at a much healthier 175, give or take.  I didn't do this all at once mind you, but it didn't take a lot of effort or at least I don’t think it did.  I wasn’t even trying to lose weight; I just wanted to treat my body in a more healthy way. 

So everybody has been asking me HOW?  Here it is. 

This plan is not a weight loss plan; this is a plan to make me healthier.  Weight loss is only a side effect.  I recommend, if you like my plan and want to try it, doing each step for a couple weeks before adding other steps. 

First, I have to start by saying you must understand that if you want to be a healthier person you have to give up the idea of counting calories and counting fat grams. If you just want to lose weight, this is not the plan for you.  Once you forget the math and the diaries just eat good food.  The amount of fat in something or the calories it has is not a measure of how “good” or “bad” a food is.  Judge food on it’s nutritional content and on how awesome it tastes. 

Step 1: Stop drinking soda (pop, coke, whatever you happen to call it)!  We all know this one, it’s just a candy bar in a can.  First, I moved to a cup of coffee in the morning, but have water the rest of the day.  Don’t say, “Oh, I drink diet! It’s ok.” No. No, it’s not.  Diet does two things, delivers a blast of caffeine and then tricks your brain into thinking it’s getting sugar, REAL sugar.  The only problem is that the artificial sweeteners are not sugar and your body knows the difference, so your brain triggers a response that makes you actually crave real sugar! Water is the way to go, this is a big one.

Step 2: Eat breakfast!  I like a good cereal with a lot of protein, but eat something besides a donut, bagel or Cheez-its.  Eggs are great, fruit, yogurt, cereal, just eat breakfast.  We've all heard it before, but still some of us don't like to listen. 

Step 3: Eat real food.  If it’s organic, that's great, but don't get hung up on that.  Just eat real, actual food that looks like it looks when it’s growing.  If it’s in a box, bag or can, chances are it’s not real.  Really, what you’re looking to get rid of here are preservatives and chemical crap that you eat every day and don't realize.  Winter time can be hard getting real tasty veggies but in the cold months I stick to frozen veggies, not canned.  The rest of the year I stay on the outside edge of the grocery for fresh stuff, or get to the farmers market.

Step 4: Don't ever, ever, ever buy anything that says low-fat, no-fat, or low-calorie.  Again, this is about removing nasty chemicals in your food that hurt you from the inside out.  This is a billion dollar industry, and the know how to advertise.  Seriously, they make that crap in a lab.  

Step 5: Stop worrying about fat and calories.  The amount of fat in something or the calories it has are not a measure of how “good” or “bad” a food is.  Judge food on its nutritional content and by how awesome it tastes, not the numbers on the back. 

Step 6: Cook.  Cook that food yourself.  You’ll get healthier food, know exactly what and where it came from, and have some tasty stuff to share with your family.

Other tips:

Don’t be afraid to use butter – Yes butter…not margarine.  Butter is as close to good as you can get.  Those other things that are meant to taste like butter…just aren’t and they have some really awful chemicals in there.  Olive oil it great and I use it for most things.   
However, I don’t pour olive oil on my baked potato, I use real freaking butter and there is no substitute. 

Don’t eat anything that is a substitute for something real.  See butter.  Don’t buy anything that says “Flavor”, that’s code for chemicals that taste like real things, only not really. 

Don’t eat anything that says “product”.  Like cheese product or cheese spread.  “Product” is code for, we could have made actual cheese, but instead we made something that could be mistaken for cheese.  By federal law, companies must label a food item as “product”, “Flavored”, or “spread” if it’s not actually the real deal.  If you look out for it you will be amazed at how many items you purchase at your local grocery labeled this way.

Can’t read it? Don’t eat it.  I like to look at the back of a package the food comes in.  If I can’t read the ingredients and pronounce them all…I don’t eat it. This one is hard. Good luck.

Lastly, go local.  This is a great way to expand your dietary horizons also.  Take a trip to Critchfield for really awesome meats of all types.  You may spend a bit more for this stuff, but let me tell you it’s worth it. Go to the farmers markets.  Not only will you support a guy that actually grew the veggie, but you can also talk to that guy about how the animals are kept and what his wife’s favorite recipe is.  Oh, she’ll be there too.  You don’t want a chemically ripened apple shipped from 1000 miles away, when you can have one from two miles away ripen on the tree planted in Kentucky soil.  I promise it will taste better.

So this is not a true weight loss plan.  This is a give my body what it needs plan.  Oddly enough, what the body needs is real food not food like products. Having said all that…I am no doctor and don’t claim to know anything more than doing what I have described above has made me lose weight and I feel much better.  Eat at your own risk.